significance of simplicity

There seems to be a preserve human characteristic that likes to make easy things difficult!
Not all that counts in life can be counted and not all that can be counted counts! - Einstein

Sidhuisms

"You are not obligated to succeed. What you are obligated to is to make efforts. And in the process, if you fail, the next best thing you are obligated to is to try again."

Love is an ass at times. It needs to change.

The Ways of the World

Why does God burden me alone with so much strife? 

In a village a young boy was playing by the river's edge. Suddenly, he heard a cry for help: "Save me, please save me!" 

A crocodile was caught in a net and it cried out for help. The boy hesitated: What if the crocodile ate him up? But the crocodile pleaded with him and said, "I promise you that i won't devour you. Please save me!" Moved, the boy began to cut the net that had trapped the crocodile. No sooner was its head free from the net than the crocodile grabbed the boy's leg in its jaws. 

Now it was the boy's turn to cry. "How unfair you are!" he shouted. The crocodile said: "What to do? Such is the way of the world. Such is life," and continued. 

The boy was not worried about dying; he couldn't accept crocodile's ingratitude. While his leg was slowly sliding into the jaws of the crocodile, the boy looked at the birds on a nearby tree and asked: "Is the crocodile uttering the truth? Is life unjust? Are not words honoured?" 

The birds replied, "We take such care to build safe nests on the tops of trees to protect our eggs. Yet, snakes come and swallow them. The crocodile is right. Then the boy saw a donkey grazing on the banks of the lake and repeated his question. "When i was young, my master loaded soiled linen on my back and extracted maximum amount of work from me. Now that I am old and feeble, he has abandoned me. Such is indeed the way of the world. There is injustice and unfairness and such is life!" said the donkey. 

The boy, still not convinced, noticed a rabbit and repeated his question. The rabbit said, "No, no! I cannot accept what the crocodile is saying. It is utter nonsense!" Hearing this, the crocodile became angry and wanted to argue with the rabbit, even while holding the boy's leg in its strong jaws. The rabbit protested, saying that as the crocodile's mouth was choked with the boy's leg, it was not able to decipher what the crocodile was trying to say. The crocodile laughed heartily at this and said, "I am not a fool! If i let go, the boy would run away!" 

"Now, you are really stupid," said the rabbit. "Have you forgotten how strong your tail is? Even if he runs, you can smash him with just one mighty lash of your tail!" 

The crocodile fell for this and releasing the boy, continued its argument and the boy took to his heels. Only when it tried to raise its tail, did the crocodile realise that it was still entangled in the net. The crocodile glared at the rabbit. The rabbit smiled sweetly, saying: "Now do you understand? Such is the way of the world! Such is life!" 

In a short while, the young boy returned with the villagers. A dog that came along spotted the rabbit and started chasing it. The boy screamed at the dog "This rabbit saved my life; don't attack him." Alas, before the boy could intervene, the dog had chased and killed the rabbit in a jiffy. 

The distressed boy cried and said to himself, "What the crocodile said was true. Such is the way of the world. Such is life!" 

Unfairness is a part and parcel of life. Such is the way of life. Can we teach ourselves not to be victims of unfairness and face it with the understanding that life's mysteries cannot be fully understood? 

Read more: The ways of the world - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/spirituality/new-age-insight/The-ways-of-the-world/articleshow/7093387.cms#ixzz18JuT9KMm

Between A Rock And A Hard Place

Edited Text of Speech (C) EW Scripps, 2003 and Aron Ralston

..."I want to talk with you today about three types of freedoms and corresponding responsiblities that you will encounter in the coming years.  First and most important, is the freedom to define yourself and the responsiblity to do so with integrity.  Second is the freedom to interact with others and the responsibility to treat others the way they want to be treated.  (Note: the Platinum Rule)  Finally, you will have the freedom to be happy and the responsibility to provide that opportunity for others as well.

"First and foremost, you have a responsibility to yourself always to act with integrity, follow your passions, and overcome your fears.  Don't let other people tell you who you are, don't settle for their expectations and dreams for you; you must define yourself, you must great your own expectations and dream your own dreams...my decision was the result of a longtem and ongoing process of discovery -- a process we each must undergo.

"Realize, though, that this process of discovery is not easy; but during times of hardship, one must know how to enjoy the journey without giving in to frustration...

"My recent experience in Blue Jean Canyon is an adjustment in the pursuit of my dreams, but there is no failure in my situation...I am continuing my pursuit of my dreams, my lifestyle.  Again, let me stress that the only person who can hold you back is you.  Don't be attached to the pathway, it is merely a starting plan to flexibly adapt -- follow it as you create it to negotiation obstacles along the way."

It is the thoughts that determine action

India, 11 points clear at No. 1 now, showed the power of positive thinking. With 478 before them in Bangalore, they played for a win; with 92 to get in Mohali and No. 10 in, they trusted the tailender; and on the last day the captain sent a rookie out to go and find his place in the world. India thought positively and hence they played positively.

So often it is the thoughts that determine action.

Win or Lose

It is better to overcome
yourself than to win a
thousand battles. Then
the victory is yours.
It cannot be taken f
rom you, not by angels
or by demons,
heaven or hell.

Gautama Buddha



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Don't let a win get to
your head, or a loss
to your heart.

Go on, define yourself

Looking back at all the seasons of life we have lived so far and looking ahead to the yet unknown that is to come, we are able to see that we have been defining ourselves all through life.

If we have lived life like sponges, absorbing experiences without reflecting on them and trying always to win the approval of others, we would never help shape the universe, to reflect the glory of creation all around us.

An undifferentiated life lived on the basis of choices made by other people for us or catering to their expectations alone is fruitless. Every plant, tree, animal, flower we have touched has shaped us. Our childhood was the time for personal differentiation, when we first became conscious of differences. If our parents helped us to develop ourselves, we learned the first few steps towards self-definition.

Our choice of careers, our specialisations and our qualifications were all part of this process. For those depending solely on the opinions of others, the choices they made showed contempt of their own person. By allowing others to dictate their lives, they did not take responsibility for their own actions.

Self-definition is a process of continuous choice exercised by the responsible. Sometimes it may result in approval by significant others. There are times when others may reject us for the choices we make. By rejecting us they circumscribe themselves rather than us. They deny the values that we stand for and the independence of choices that make us different.

Self-definition does not allow us to feel bad about ourselves for long. On analysing the choice we’ve made, we see that even where we have remained silent or not taken sides, we have been true to ourselves. The walls we had to put up against others or the psychological distance we created were all part of the process.

As we grow older, we become less impetuous and more dispassionate. We adopt equanimity. In the process of evolving as individuals, we continue weaving the fabric of our lives and the designs we create everyday are helping shape the universe. Sometimes, when the way ahead is unclear, faith has helped us move forward.

Looking back we see that grim situations we have been in have taught us priceless lessons. We have learned not to retaliate personally when others attack us. We have kept our hopes alive when we’ve been written off. We have moved into and inhabited other worlds, when the world as we knew no longer accepted us.

It is only towards the end of our lives that we will begin to understand what impact we might have had on the life of others and how we shaped the universe. Did we build bridges rather than walls? Did we reach out to others or did we imprison ourselves in narrow confines of prejudice and bigotry? Did we allow others to voice their opinions and give them an ear? Or were we so self-absorbed that we could not think beyond our own pedestrian needs? Did we reach into our intrinsic divine self and connect to divinity in others? Only time can tell.

Till we take our last breath, we will continue to define ourselves through our attitudes and actions. We will keep revealing the way we have defined ourselves - either as creators of beauty and harmony in the wider universe or as killjoys who spent a great deal of time and energy disrupting the life of others and our own.